Advice from 23 years old fellow to newbies to 20's..
First of all I have to say that, I’m still 23 years old. But by living away from home for studies, starting to manage my own business and working with many organisations I think I have learnt so many lessons and I have gathered so many experiences. But I know, I have to learn more.
From what I have experienced in my life so far, I want to highlight the 3 most important points for you in your 20's.
Identifying your self:
This is the most important and the first thing you have to do in your 20’s. Identify what you want to do or What you want to become. Don’t rely on others needs and wants and fulfill them when selecting your path of the life since others happiness may not define your happiness.
Identify true people:
We have lots of friends with us now, but think for a moment. Are all of them true friends?? There’s no point of having a friend who will never be there for you when you face a problem. They are not true friend. Once Buddha said that, “If you want to become successful person one day, find true friends”. Some of the bad people who act like friends will never let you to become a successful person in your life. There are so many people who are trying to block our success path forever. Try to avoid them. If you can’t find true friends, being alone will not harm you anyway. You can find someone like that eventually .
Listen to other’s ideas when needed:
Younger people like us who have more strength, don’t like to pay attention to others advice or thoughts. We think our ideas or purposes are the right thing to do in the whole world. I also had that kind of time in my life. But.. One day I realized that, sometimes we can be wrong and others can have better ideas or solutions than us. There are so many people out there who have so many experiences than us. So try to identify those kind of people and seek their advice.
From what I have experienced in my life so far, I want to highlight the 3 most important points for you in your 20's.
Identifying your self:
This is the most important and the first thing you have to do in your 20’s. Identify what you want to do or What you want to become. Don’t rely on others needs and wants and fulfill them when selecting your path of the life since others happiness may not define your happiness.
Identify true people:
We have lots of friends with us now, but think for a moment. Are all of them true friends?? There’s no point of having a friend who will never be there for you when you face a problem. They are not true friend. Once Buddha said that, “If you want to become successful person one day, find true friends”. Some of the bad people who act like friends will never let you to become a successful person in your life. There are so many people who are trying to block our success path forever. Try to avoid them. If you can’t find true friends, being alone will not harm you anyway. You can find someone like that eventually .
Listen to other’s ideas when needed:
Younger people like us who have more strength, don’t like to pay attention to others advice or thoughts. We think our ideas or purposes are the right thing to do in the whole world. I also had that kind of time in my life. But.. One day I realized that, sometimes we can be wrong and others can have better ideas or solutions than us. There are so many people out there who have so many experiences than us. So try to identify those kind of people and seek their advice.
Good Luck!
Kalpani
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